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41 Answers To Questions Girls Are Afraid To Ask Guys

Questions Girls Are Afraid To Ask Guys

When we like someone or are in a relationship, it may be difficult to ask guys certain personal questions no matter how curious you are. If you’re afraid to ask guys questions then you might find the answers below. I’ve listed and answered some common questions girls are afraid to ask guys and shared some videos where teens ask their guy friends to answer some as well.

questions girls are afraid to ask guys

1. Is it possible for guys to be friends with a girl without developing feelings?

Guys can be friends with girls. Men can definitely form platonic friendships. However, if anything does develop between two parties, it is important to be honest about it and have an open discussion.

2. Do you mind if your girlfriend has lots of guy friends?

This really depends on the strength of your relationship. It doesn’t matter if you have a lot of guy friends if you’re in a healthy, trusting relationship, particularly if he likes hanging out with your guy friends. However, if they openly pursue you, that’s a different story. Nevertheless, you should not change your friends for a guy; if he loves you, he will love your friends as much as you do. Make sure to make your boyfriend feel secure and important, and don’t flirt with your guy friends.

3. Is cheating something you can forgive?

Most relationships end because of cheating. Cheating isn’t only about how it occurs but also how it is perceived by those who have been cheated on. Some guys find it completely unforgivable.

The definition of what most guys use for “cheating” goes beyond having sex with someone else. Knowing his definition of cheating is crucial in a relationship.

4. What makes men so ashamed when a woman makes more money than they do?

The world is changing so rapidly. Why would a woman’s salary cast a shadow on a man? Men, however, might still feel emasculated and insecure. We believe that money adds no value to a person’s personality, so it should not matter who earns more.

5. Who should pay on the first date?

Generally, guys insist on paying for the first date. It’s not uncommon for girls to want to split the bill to demonstrate that they are equally contributing to the partnership. It’s usually a good idea to offer to split it, and then he can decide to pay or split with you. 

6. Is it offensive for guys when a girl asks them to split the bill on a date?

There’s no big deal to it, but sometimes guys feel compelled to pay. It might be a good idea to offer to split, or if he insists on paying, then you can get movie tickets next time or drinks later.

7. Is too much time spent getting ready a pet peeve for you?

Some girls take forever getting ready. Getting dressed is not very challenging for men, but waiting around for their girlfriend can become a problem. Just assume that no one enjoys waiting around for whatever reason, and choosing what to wear would probably be included in that. 

8. How do you flirt?

Girls may not always be able to tell if a guy is flirting because they may assume he’s being nice. In case you keep friend-zoning guys accidentally, learning what a guy’s favorite flirting moves are will explain to you how to tell the difference between flirting and being friendly. Most guys will make eye contact and try to spend lots of time with you (in-person and online).

9. How do you feel about girls making the first move?

Guys are traditionally the ones who make the first move and ask girls out. As the times change, women are increasingly empowered to make the first move and decide who they want to date. Most guys would definitely enjoy a girl making a move as they’re just as insecure as you are.

10. Do you mind if I message you while you’re out?

This is a great question to ask. It is common for guys to have “guys night” with their friends. It might not necessarily be that he does not want to be contacted during those times, but that he might not be checking his phone and not have time to respond to your message. Taking time apart is a good thing, and you’ll show him you’re considerate of the time he spends with friends. Expect that if you message him, he will only respond later or the following day. Don’t get upset, or you might come across as needy.

11. Do you like to keep in touch throughout the day?

It’s OK to message your guy, but everyone has their preferences regarding how much contact is desired. When he has too much going on, the feeling can be suffocating and overwhelming and will divert his attention away from work and other stuff. You may need to agree on when you can have a daily conversation that is enjoyable for both of you.

Uncomfortable Questions To Ask Guys

Uncomfortable Questions To Ask Guys

11. Why did you break up with your ex?

It is common for women to be curious about their partners’ past. Some believe it is also relevant for the man’s future. In reality, that shouldn’t be the case because, according to men themselves, they tend to change depending on who they are with. Past events may not always indicate a person’s personality, but it’s interesting to know. Be sure to ask this question in a more relaxed, general way and not be too inquisitive in case he doesn’t want to answer the question. 

12. Did you ever think about your ex while we were together?

Obviously, a “yes” response would mean war! However, many women are obsessed with finding out everything they can about their partner’s ex. Girls shouldn’t get too obsessed with their boyfriend’s past because it will do them no good. Plus, the uncomfortable nature of this question probably won’t allow you to get an honest answer.

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